The flowers known as annuals bloom beautifully for just one season; the roots do not linger far past the first freeze, and the sole evidence of their brief life are the seeds left behind. But when winter wipes the green from the earth, there are some plants whose roots remain intact, waiting out the freeze …
How To Embrace Your Sexual Fluidity
Educator, author, and researcher Emily Nagoski, Ph.D. says “There are as many unique sexualities as there are humans on earth.” For most people, sexuality is a key part of how we connect with ourselves and other people. But like many things in life, sexuality is not stagnant. It’s dynamic, and it can shift and change as …
How Do You Know You’re In Love? 10 People Share The Moment They Knew
One of the most beautiful aspects of falling in love is that no two love stories are the same. Everyone falls in love and experiences romance differently. Each moment you spend with a partner throughout your life is precious — and totally unique. As someone who writes about relationships for a living, I’ve always been …
Reader Essay: How Forgiveness Brought Abundance Into My Life
I recently ruptured my Achilles tendon and tore my ankle ligament in what I would say was a desperate attempt at “self-care.” I got injured in a basketball game — playing basketball brings me peace, especially in my busy life — but while I was getting triple-teamed by the opposing players, I jumped and heard …
11 Filtered Shower Heads That Reduce Your Water Consumption
If you’ve ever suffered from dry skin or scalp, eczema, or brittle strands, hard water may be to blame. An estimated 85% of the US water supply is considered “hard water,” aka water with extra minerals. While not all minerals in hard water are dangerous, there is the potential for contaminants like heavy metals. You’ll often see those same effects of …
How To Grow Alongside Your Partner—Even When You’ve Both Changed
There are seasons in life that seem to last forever. Then, there are mornings when you wake up and realize an entire decade has gone by. You’re older, you’re different, and all of your former selves feel little more than distant memories. When you roll over and see the person lying next to you, you …
7 Affordable Couples Therapy Services (Online)
Relationship & marriage counseling is perfectly normal. Romantic comedies often paint relationships as easy—effortless, even. But the truth is that a commitment to someone isn’t a set-it-and-forget-it kind of thing. Relationships require maintenance, especially after the changes we all experienced in the past few years. Perhaps you’ve mastered the art of open and honest communication …
Why I Don’t Keep Any Of My Own Secrets
A few years back, I was tidying before friends arrived for New Year’s Eve when my stomach made the sort of sound you’d expect from a swamp monster. I thought it was just a little gas. We were at the tail end of the Bacchanalia that is the last two weeks of December, and as a …
10 Mold & Mycotoxin Free Coffee Brands
A Moroccan tray sits on my kitchen counter, a little oasis dedicated solely to the morning ritual of coffee. On it sits my Frieling Double-Walled Stainless Steel French Press, and a small brass bowl to hold my measuring spoon. I keep my beans in an airtight container in my pantry to protect from light, heat, …
How To Have A Social Life When You Have Social Anxiety
It happens in the most everyday places, like when I go to the grocery store. I feel as if there is a lump in my throat, and on rare occasions, I freeze, shake, or sweat heavily. They must think I don’t know what I’m doing because my cart is empty. Is this the best cashier line? …