Some days, everything feels like failure. Things spiral, and with each less-than-perfect moment you feel the failure even more — until you’re crying about slightly overcooked pasta. I’ve been there, more recently than I’d like to admit. And if you have, too, let’s get through this together. Let’s find a mirror, look ourselves in the …
Why I’m Pursuing Financial Wellness Over “Financial Freedom”
Keeping up with the Joneses has never been my motivation. I tend to either ignore or rebel against fleeting consumer trends. And regarding household spending, we aim to make highly researched, conscious purchases and splurge only when we know the result will last a lifetime or provide meaningful experiences. Of course, there are some sporadic …
Why Are You So Hard On Yourself?
Some days, everything feels like failure. Things spiral, and with each less-than-perfect moment you feel the failure even more — until you’re crying about slightly overcooked pasta. I’ve been there, more recently than I’d like to admit. And if you have, too, let’s get through this together. Let’s find a mirror, look ourselves in the …
9 Affordable Online Therapy Sites Like BetterHelp (2024)
Our editors have personally used and benefited from online talk therapy — these are our top choices for inclusive, affordable, and accessible care. With everything happening in the world, many of us find ourselves more stressed than ever and in need of support — we’ll be the first to admit we often feel this way. …
Why Gentle Exercise Is Appropriate At Every Age
It wasn’t until recently, while walking with my dogs in the quiet of a nature preserve, that I recognized how valuable a slower-paced, gentler exercise could be — both physically and mentally. As a teen heavily into sports, I learned to value high-impact strength training and exercised for tangible results. The higher the intensity, the …
How To Not Take Yourself So Seriously — Take It From Me
Somewhere in the archives of Facebook exists a photo of a fun-loving teenager in her last few days of her senior year of high school. She’s sitting inside a large recycling bin in the school hallway, giving a peace sign, grinning from ear to ear. That girl is not me. Instead, if you examine the …
Reader Essay: A Letter To My Younger Self
Dearest Younger Self, Today will most likely be another day where you sit behind a closed door that your parents refuse to open. Today will most likely be another day where you wonder if there will ever be a time when things won’t feel this way. The years will teach you that children deserve unconditional …
99 Positive Morning Affirmations You Can Use Daily
The waters of self-care have ebbed and flowed throughout my life, and during a particularly long ebb (a drought, if you will), I spoke these words to myself every day: I am hopeful. I am healing. I am happy. When my heart felt broken, I found wholeness in opening it up again. I found hope …
The 7 Best Protein Powders For Women Who Need A Little Extra
Protein is an essential amino acid that’s a must for our bodies to function properly, and protein powders are a great way to make sure we’re keeping up with our intake. Unfortunately, not all protein powders are made equally since there aren’t strict regulations for protein supplements in the US. Instead, for a cleaner alternative: You’ll want …
How I’m Changing My Style On A Budget
A new board has recently sprouted on my long-neglected Pinterest account, simply titled “nm.” It’s filled with pictures of pink buzzcuts and colorblocked outfits, street photography of people in large coats, line art and lettering that move me, instructions for style DIYs I’ve already bungled but want to try again. Colors, patterns, and textures are …